Welcome Adult Riders!!

Adult Riders Rock, that's the theme of this blog. As the new Area VI Adult Rider rep, I thought I'd start by setting up a site that we could use to share some news, post some ideas, complain about stuff, celebrate our accomplishments, and have some fun.

I'd love to have your input about how to improve the adult riding experience in Area VI. I'm thinking:

Parties at the Shows

Clinics

Adult Camps

Hats or T-shirts

More Prizes for Area VI Adult Riders (how about end of year awards just for adults?)

More Recognition for Adult Riders of all levels!!!

When is the last time you were at a show, waiting for a ribbon (or watching everyone else pick up their ribbon), and you had to sit through tons of young riders awards? Nothing against young riders, OF COURSE, but yeesh. As adults, we have to work, pay for our horses and training, take care of our kids (and our husbands/wives who are acting like kids), do all the barn work, drive to and from the show, and try to be so darn "adult" about the whole thing. I mean, no whining, no screaming, no crying, no shrieking "I want a new horse" to mommy after getting eliminated, and no cool prize at the end. Are you kidding??? We need serious recognition and we need it NOW.

Another note - I've been involved in the eventing world for six or seven years now. I still remember nervously riding down to my first beginner novice dressage test at Galway. It was overwhelming. A young woman rode up next to me and started a conversation - I must have looked like I was about to puke. She was very nice and very supportive and I relaxed and smiled. Then she rode away...later I found out she was India McEvoy, now an Advanced rider. We all need to remember how important it is to support our fellow adult riders, especially if they are just starting out! Lend a helping hand, or just smile and tell someone how great they look. They will remember and it will make a difference.

So, I want to figure out how to improve our experience...and I need your input. Post a comment! Tell us your ideas! Send me an article! Let me know what you've been up to, and I'll post it for all to see! Send pics! Come on adult riders, get involved!

Can't wait to hear from you,

Dawn Robbins
Your Cheerleader
Area VI Adult Rider Rep

Comments Heard at the Adult Rider "Out Gate"

Have you ever noticed that as an adult rider, you often hear and experience certain, well, "opinions" expressed about your riding in a manner that seems quite different than what you hear around the younger riders in our sport? Why is that? Maybe because our trainers, helpers, grooms, significant others, etc. know how to communicate in our unique adult world? Is this what makes us adult riders? Or is it something else?

Here are a few examples that I thought I'd share...they make my experience as an adult rider truly meaningful...

After show jumping at Copper Meadows one time, spoken respectfully but somewhat forcefully:
"I wonder if you would mind pulling your head out of your "a__" for a minute so that I can speak to it..."

After getting eliminated in Beginner Novice at Galway Downs in show jumping a while back:
"Wow, you can ride a stop better than anyone!"

During a recent lesson, spoken somewhat sarcastically, if I recall correctly,
"Did you even think about balancing your horse during that course?"

This next one requires picturing a rather diminutive trainer standing about 6 inches in front of my 16.2 horse. Said trainer begins yelling, (horse's ears are perked forward in surprise at loudness of small humanoid) "You f-ing horse! That was clearly a five stride line! You get the best f-ing care in the world! You get the best f-ing food a horse could get! I think you can go out there and put in five strides!! Now DO IT RIGHT!!!" (By the way, we got it right next time).

And, during a clinic last weekend, after I jumped a big table on a downhill, blew by the clinician at about 650mpm and eventually stopped - I couldn't go any further because we would have smashed into a fence:
Clinician - "When I said halt after the table, I really meant somewhere around me so that we could continue this lesson..."

Anyone have an insight or experiences of your own that you'd like to share? Post a comment or send in your own unique adult rider story!!

CA Adult Rider Story - Lisa Mehner

This story was originally posted on the USEA Blog by Emily Daily I know Lisa, and she is truly inspirational, just like many of you adult riders.

I want the opportunity to tell my story to all the mothers out there who gave up what they love to support their children’s dreams. They too can get back in the saddle and follow their own dreams. It may take longer. It may take riding before work – I would get up at 4:30 a.m., feed the horses at home and then go to my trainer’s barn for a 6:00 a.m. lesson before I went to work. And the entire time, my husband’s input would be “You’re nuts!”

(Above: Elisabeth accepts her numerous year-end awards from USEA President Kevin Baumgardner at the 2008 USEA Annual Meeting & Convention. Josh Walker photo.)

Before 2004, people knew me as “Lisa, the braider” at all my son’s events. I would braid up to 20 horses at an event to help pay for his riding and competing. It was only after Michael gave me an event entry at Galway Downs for a Mother’s Day gift, that I started riding again. For 10 years my focus had been to support Michael’s riding – I didn’t even think of riding for myself. But after that first event at Galway, I was hooked (even though I finished with a score in the 80s). I knew I could only do better.

In March 2006, my husband Mark bought me my horse Gali, a small, young thoroughbred that needed a job. I had known about him for a couple of months when my veterinarian told me that a woman bought him from the track but did not have the time to train him. He had a lot of energy and a large heart. When I took him to his first show, you could tell he liked to show off. To settle him down, I would lunge him and ride him twice before his dressage test. But the consistent training, rain or shine, and combined efforts of horse Gali, rider [me] and our trainer, Debbie Rosen, (don’t get me wrong, it was fun – fun work!) are not without a payoff. We improved, progressing individually and as a unit, until lo and behold…

It wasn’t until I looked at the USEA leaderboard on April 10, 2008 that the idea of achieving a National title even entered my head. (I didn’t even know the leaderboard existed until than then.) I was so blown away to see my name, Elisabeth Mehner, and my horse’s name, Good Day Gali, appear on in the standings, leading in both rider and horse title, that I set a new goal in my life. Even my husband, who’s not so fond of horses, caught my fever and trailer-d me to shows. He knew that there was no stopping me. As long as my body didn’t fall apart, I was going to give it my best shot.

After all is said and done, I enjoyed and continue to reap all kinds of rewards from the USEA and this sport. Everyone, the participants and officials, just couldn’t be nicer. When I went to New Orleans to receive my National title at the USEA luncheon, I randomly sat at the same table as this young lady from Tennessee, who happened to be a close competitor on the leaderboard. It turns out that last year we both consistently checked each other’s standings as we came closer to the title. It could have been a really uncomfortable situation, but we had a mutual admiration for each other. For me, the camaraderie that eventing inspires is one of its greatest attractions.
Please use my story as an inspiration to young and old: If you want to do something that seems unattainable because of your circumstances, it can be done. There is a way, just expand your perspective, imagine a way, and then see it through.

You too can jump that hurdle!

Do you have an interesting, inspirational or funny story to share with other Adult Riders? Send it to me at dawnrobbins@sbcglobal.net!